love and relationship.....

Today in my stuffy and cozy  room as I idly lay in my bed, so many different thoughts strike into my mind which I ultimately came to a realization that today's youth have a good number of issues other than the unemployment issue. Of all the issues like substance abuses, gang fights, thefts, unemployment so on and so forth, the most striking issues what I feel is the relationship issues among today's youth.

I undoubtedly reckon that majority of today's youth especially the students are very much obsessed with love and relationship than their future career and parents. Facebook has now become a universal dairy where everyone jots down all kinds of status and information. Mostly I can see relationship status where some being engaged, some being married, some being broken up, some being into new relationship, so on and on. I am pretty sure that there will be only a very few youth who are diligent, futuristic, opportunistic, optimistic and thoughtful and rest will be just a creator of their own setbacks and least bothered about their lives.

Love is deemed to be the precious gift of life and also believe that life devoid of love is meaningless. Yes, I also consent with it partly but if we analyze and contemplate positively then there is a lot to consider of it. Love is a precious gift of god but it can also be venomous if not handled properly. We ought to know how to harness the fruits of love. Only then love will beautify our lives and nourish our hearts. But the paradox is that young lads and laddies are not knowing how to extract the nectar out of the exquisite flower of love. Instead they are getting entrapped and victimized.

Moreover, in today's trendy world with overly fashioned people, those old inspiring adages will no longer hold the truths. Those sacred proverbs are becoming unconvincing and out fashioned. They tend to create their own new versions. If we say, " Educate first, marriage can wait" then they will certainly confute and say just the opposite. Our youth are only concerned about what they can give to their loves and how they can keep their loves happily. And also what their parents and relatives can offer them but never do they think what they can offer their parents.

There are many students who got spoiled owing to love and relationship. Some were prodded to abandon their schools, some were prompted to  commit suicides, while some became parents, monks and nuns etc..They just don't realize that love is just a distraction. Therefore, I would like to solemnly urge my friends to firstly focus on education and become self-reliant and thereafter go for love and marriages, anything you feel like doing.