Thursday 5 February 2015

Have a heart to appreciate....

How do you feel when somebody deprecates your works or when some one gives an unpleasant remarks on your works? Or how will you feel in case some one belittles your works? You just try to imagine yourself in such situation. I may not be right but as far as I know, I am very much sure that nobody will feel good or motivated when our works are not being exalted or when there is no even a little good thing about our works.

I can't say how others may feel but in case of me, I feel demotivated, dispirited and gradually lose my passions on doing things when there is no appreciation to my efforts. But when I say like this, it doesn't mean that others should appreciate and revere  my works compulsorily. No. it isn't my intention also. It isn't also my point to say that my works are the worthiest of all and deserving of all the praises and deference. Nothing like that. The point what I am trying to bring up is the value and vitality of appreciation.

I just realized the value and importance of an appreciation when I was in thirst for it because one of the lecturers who taught us Animation in my third semester,would never appreciate my works no matter how much I endeavored to do my best.Since I was learning that subject for the first time and besides not having good IT knowledge, I would hesitatingly seek his help sometimes with a hope of getting positive response but you know what?? Rather than clarifying my doubts he would try to find fault with my works. Even in assignments, he would give me and also to my friend, the lowest marks of all. Nonetheless we two tried to put up with him thinking that we would win his appreciation someday but in  vain.Because he remained the same through out the semester.

After knowing about his atrocious instinct I started to become apathetic in his subject and even regretted for having chosen it in the first place. I thought it would have been better if I had chosen the other given the preferences. Frankly speaking, I even started to detest him extremely because he was such a bad teacher I ever had in my life. So, from my own bitter experience, I would like to urge all my friends to at least exude appreciation for others' works and gratefulness for what others have done for us. For appreciation and gratitude always inspire and encourage others to take further steps and keep doing the things zealously and passionately. No matter how their works may be, never try to belittle them because deprecation has the tremendous potency to dishearten the person." Nothing is good or bad; Only thinking makes it so."
                                                     
                                                     Thank you all.

               Have a great time reading....Take care!!!!!!!!!

4 comments:

  1. I too believe in what you have written.The love and appreciation has such a power even the Devil can be transformed into divine.So,more love and appreciation in the teaching and to the work of the student would contribute the largest progressive step in the pupils' performance.such teacher is not impurely pig headed, who avoids weak students and who appreciates no works of it.I really detest such... fcuk them...

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    1. thank you chum for your full support and adding more meaning to my article...I appreciate your words...and thank you too for your visit..Do visit always...:)

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  2. It is an instructive and related post, indeed a message to all of us, especially to our beloved teachers who are all the time with innumerable students. You're right bro, encouragement and appreciation are just like two sides of a coin. And your experience speak beyond your words. Every teacher must encourage and appreciate what his/her students are doing no matter whether the student reach be up to expectation or not, two sides of a coin is most.
    It's so nasty to know about your teacher as you have described above. But, my earnest request is, never lose optimism, be optimistic and head ahead, I know how tough it would be, but trying will always yield goodness. REMEMBER, if there is no one to appreciate or encourage you, just relax yourself and start appreciating/encouraging yourself, that would be the best.
    Wishing you happy encouragement to yourself. Do well ahead. Apart from this, hope all is going well with sound in health. Regards from me. Do great. Take Care. :)

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    1. Thank you brother for the supportive and inspiring supplements and compliments. You never fail to encourage and inspire me and also the others. You are the best of the best..brother....Thank you so much for always visiting my works and leaving behind the most beautiful comments I ever received. I will try my best to stay within the frameworks of your words..And for your information, I am doing well here and hope same is the thing with you too out there...Always do great and keep smiling...Take care brother!!!!!!!

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